Being a mother, a wife, and a full-time employee, life gets well, lost. I keep hearing do what makes you happy... Or live for Allie. How do I do that? I have to take care of my family just as much as my husband. I have to earn a living just as well as he does. I am losing myself though. Men do not understand half of what women say. Mostly it goes into their "nothing box". Which is basically a place where they tune everything and everyone out. So to the beyond....