I completely agree with you upon this matter.
Respect should be the priority. It doesn't matter if you show favour for someone or not,but you should respect everyone. Everyone deserves here respect and positive behaviour.

Exactly! Have a good day!

Its really good share your felling with us @chbartist. Every field and everywere you find good and bad people. But just bleave in yourself and do our best.
All the best to u tooo....

Thank you @mharjit

Your well come sir....

@chbartist As per my point of view and you opinion in this post , Honesty is the best policy, even it is more difficult in this world. After reading your several post I found that your word comes from your heart and you are honest with yourself.

People always respect the word from heart and as human there is always space for healthy argument. If we not argue or not put our point of view, we will be like a frog in the well.

Off course nobody holds the truth but nobody knows the everything. With the help of healthy argument and avoid negative people and their opinion we can help each other with opinion and build a healthy community.

Thank you for your kind words. You have understood exactly what I want to share and about being honest with myself I can assure you that I have built my life by always being honest with myself and with people. To reach our goals we do not need to climb into other people's heads. Regards

Dear sir!
You are absolutely right, do not earn respect, but rather from your good behavior and your efficiency and your positive attitude.
The ritual of all of us is clearly reflected in our behavior, speaking, language, living, etiquette. Sir you have mentioned about @d-pend sir. In fact he is very kind and very behaviourful, he always gives the right advice. I am their very big fan of myself.

Thank you for your comment! Regards!

I was very grateful for the interactions that were had on your last post. The way you responded showed me a lot about your character and I walked away from the situation with a better understanding of the intentions behind your style of using STEEM.

People complain a lot about bid bots and vote buying, but I think the beautiful thing about this blockchain is the sense of radical freedom. There are a million different ways to use Steemit and that makes it a more exciting place!

If there are major imbalances, the best way to fix them is on a chain level with a hard fork, or by building layers on top that are opt-in like @steem-ua. It's a little silly to blame people for using tools that exist because they are profitable under current rules.

Have a great rest of your day @chbartist :-)

Thank you again for your comment @d-pend certainly you are one of the nicest people i've had the pleasure to meet on this platform. have a beautiful day yourself.

I’m glad I talked to you myself and didn’t listen to what other people had to say who were judging without direct knowledge. I hope I can keep an open mind no matter how old I get physically. I can tell you are a good person.

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I can say the same about you. It does not matter if you are younger because when we have intelligence and wisdom that comes naturally with life we always have what we learn from other people and it does not matter if they are younger or not.

I had gone through your comment that you leave on previous post of @chbartest thanks for your valuable words. The lines you wrote was self explanatory there was a massage in that comment. All information was given through the help of that comment was very valuable thanks for your time to writing such type of amezing comment. I find all the information is related with our life. Thanks again @d-pend

I think use of voteing bots is not bad because
Now days it is a way to promote your valuable content and share you valuable words with other steamiens because use of bots give attention to the post. Bots help to bring our quality content to the eye of others.

@ajsharma333

I don't think you considered the situation of bidbots/self-voting since you seem to think that it can be fixed through code changes. Yes, maybe with tools that empower everyone we can address those issues, yet by making the tools it's no guarantee that they in turn won't be abused. In the real world, a weapon can be used for profit regardless if the profit was from Self Defense or Robbery. So on here, abusing something is never going to be fixed by code, as those that are entrusted to Protect in the real world can use their authority, power, and tools to destroy, regardless of the immemorial laws which exist.

Yes, but you can build a system in which manual curation is more profitable than any form of automation. I'm not saying it would be easy, it would be extremely difficult. But I believe it is possible, though it might require absolute identity verification like some sort of DNA-computer interfacing which is obviously not available to the general public. I also think it would require a hybrid linear/superlinear rewards algorithm. You are correct that any tool can be abused, and it's a developer's job to forsee as many possible avenues of abuse and prevent against them. No system will ever be perfectly resistant to manipulation because humans will always find new ways to be devious.

So until this almost impossible thing happens we can't blame people for abusing the system, correct?

What's your view? I've never heard of blame being productive for much of anything, but I'm open to hearing your perspective on the situation.

Blame is the other side of the coin from justify. You cannot have one without the other, so is shame to honor and condemnation to commend, and while it will be nice if we hadn't the need for those words in our world, as it stands there's plenty of times when things aren't justifiable, or honorable or commendable, and I'm one to call it as I see it.

Blame gives people a chance to correct themselves and if you don't extend that chance how or why should they change? It's not as if failure isn't the best opportunity to learn, and blame is simply pointing at a failure.

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It's always good to come to terms with people we've had issues with irrespective of how big or small it is. So glad you have have restored peace and embraced dialog.

RESPECT

Great words, Thank you!

In reality it is not that they are not productive, it is that a relationship without respect is nothing, a conversation without respect is nothing.
The truth I have not read your previous post to comment or comment on him, but what is certain is that no matter our position or how much we think that the other is wrong, the important thing is to put on the shoe of the other person to try to understand why he thinks in one way or another, and in many cases we have to understand that the battle is lost to foolish people, who do not accept comments from others and resort to insults to feel winners.
In reality, the real gain is to learn from the opinions of others, to take their visualization in order to work on improving ours.
The truth is very relative, depends on a very subjective view of the world and situations ... THERE IS NO ABSOLUTE TRUTH
Everyone believes in their truth, in their world, but is surrounded by thousands of people in their worlds and the only way to progress is to coexist.

Thank you for your comment and time! All the best!

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>it is that a relationship without respect is nothing, a conversation without respect is nothing.

Agreed, mutual respect is the foundation of understanding. Without it, there is little reason to interact because it will lead nowhere productive.

>The important thing is to put on the shoe of the other person to try to understand why he thinks in one way or another.

Precisely. Compassion and empathy are vital.

>Who do not accept comments from others and resort to insults to feel winners.

This is the sign of a child. Many people think they are adults but in mentality they remain children, often into their old age. This is because aging in the sense of declining in energy is a passive process and somewhat of a given, but aging in the sense of maturing and gathering wisdom is a passive-active process: it requires our consent and effort that we actually progress as conscious beings.

>In reality, the real gain is to learn from the opinions of others, to take their visualization in order to work on improving ours.

This is true power WITH people, instead of power OVER people.

>The truth is very relative, depends on a very subjective view of the world and situations ...

To untangle this we have to realize the word "truth" can represent different things. When people say truth is subjective, they refer to "your truth/my truth" which is not really the truth but only opinions and beliefs, all of which are somewhat true and somewhat false.

>THERE IS NO ABSOLUTE TRUTH

In my view, this is an absurd statement from an ontological level. Although this statement has become quite popular in the fallacious ideologies of radical relativism promoted in modern society to confuse and weaken people, it represents a nonsensical assertion that reality can be other than It Is.

If it is granted that "something exists," no matter what that something is (opposite of nihilistic conception) then the exact opposite of your statement must be concluded. "ABSOLUTE TRUTH" is the only thing that is real because it represents veracities that are unimpeachable, like the laws of quantum physics. (which humans comprehend only 0.0000001% of)

What I think you meant was that "no human is the sole owner of truth" meaning that all of our fragments of the Truth are part of the macrocosmic dynamo that is our reality. And although absolute Truth is radically real beyond all else, it is only knowable to humans in parts. I'm being a little semantically picky here, but I think it's important.

>Everyone believes in their truth, in their world, but is surrounded by thousands of people in their worlds and the only way to progress is to coexist.

Again, I agree, but would call the amalgamation of all these billions and trillions of worlds "Absolute Truth" or more generally, "The Absolute." @darkfemme

@darkfemme great research. Awesome information. Thanks for sharing. Keep up the good work.
Cheers!!!

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Oh thanks
When I read the title of the publication, I was immediately tempted to read it because it is a topic of vital importance to me.
Respect is one of the most basic principles of any human, the basis of every healthy relationship.

I love your analogy

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Dear @d-pend
I meant exactly that... THERE IS NO ABSOLUTE TRUTH.
It may exist in a greater plane, but in the simplicity of the human being's daily life, the definition is null and void because if you ask an alcoholic if excessive drinking is wrong, he will most likely say no (although if you ask his family he will answer the opposite).
Of course, I understand that when a situation is seen without being involved in the problem, you can notice that each one has its absolute truth very particularly defined but that both have part of truth and part of a lie.

What is good or optimal for you, is not necessarily good and optimal for me; but still part of our truth.

PS: You made me review some terms that I had not been able to discuss for quite some time lol ;)

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Hola!
Un placer conocerte @cinkito
Yo soy Raquel :)

Wow!!!! muchísimas gracias por contestar Raquel 🤩

Son normas de educación básica ;)

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wow.what a nice thing.

Yes! chbartist! respectful dialogue always help the people to get possitive attitude like you.
Whenever I comment in your every blog you support me with a respectful dialogue. Its a great thing to me. You are a real motivator in steemit for us. your every article help me to get possitive attitude, communication with the people, networking method, vast amount of your career experience varieties kind of manner and thaught.
I decide to write an article about you in my account to motivate the people. How explain you about my idea????

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Thanks, if I understood correctly you want to write an article about me on your blog? And you want me to give you some direction on how to write? If that's what I understood, I'll just give you a tip. Write what you want my friend, use your heart and it will give you the right words. Another thing, do not worry about being perfect because neither of us are. Regards

Thank you friends! I already have started to write about you.

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Hi @Chbartist,
I would like to inform you that. On your posts only I see most of the STEEMIT members try to upvote each other.
What does it means?
All the articles posted by you about positive thinking and helping each other already started working.
If this same changes will be seen in all other posts. Then you will be the only person to be appreciated for this.
I am continuously following you. And I can clearly see the change among STEEMIT member because of your articles.
And I always say your article motivates many STEEMIT members to be positive and try to help others as much as possible.
I always wait for your motivational articles.
Thanks.

Exactly, I've been insisting on people voting on each other's comments because I understand that people who dedicate their time to make comments based on the post deserve at least the respect and receive something for the time they dedicated to comment. I have also seen this change and I am very happy to see people with 5,6,7,8 upvotes of all who participate here in my blog. For me this is the true way to build a community and so am I do not like and do not agree with the flags, but I will still write in another post about it. For now the important thing is that people understand exactly what I'm trying to promote here that is simply that some help others.

Truth be told, though i am new but so far i have read through peoples posts, it is only in @chbartist post that i see almost everyone upvoting one another on steemit

It is important for people to understand that we should always have respect for everyone. We might have differences of opinions with others because everyone thinks differently but people should realize that while expressing their point of view, they should never be oppressive in any kind of way.

Thank you!

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Enjoy Steeming😀

I also want to appreciate @chrbartist, the man who ignited this dialogue and we all learnt a new perspective we may have ignored or never knew that it existed.

What I have learnt from your series of post I have been putting into practice
both on this platform and in my every day life , and I must confess I am seeing positive result, I don't have much steem yet but I can see the increase in my reputation.

Each and every one of us, carries a unique experience and we can only get to appreciate it when we interact constructively with ourselves. The level of maturity displayed by my fellow steemians on this platform has shown that STEEMIT has evolved beyond infancy stage and we can only be grateful to our fellow steemians from all nations present and the developer's of this platform.

Finally, May we be the light we seek in other's because their is strength in unity of purpose.

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Exactly my friend. People who read my previous posts will realize that there are many teachings that I am sharing for them to apply in their lives. I am not the owner of the truth but I am trying to share events that I am sure many people will still see in their lives and I try to tell people what worked for me. Whether or not they will apply theirs is a decision of each person. I wish you the best!

I will be grateful if you will teach me more

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I will be grateful if you will teach me more

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@chbartist, that is why the gift of the word (and communication in general) becomes one of the most beautiful, reinforcing the respect between each and every one.

By the way, here what I have made thinking about other of your excellent posts.

Thank you for these wonderful thoughts!

Thank you friend! All the best!

✌😘

In my very ones point of views are important and we should respect that. But some we should show disagreements because every time we don’t have right thinking therefore disagreement is important but if you are a bigger person then others then others have some fear to show there disagreements.

Thank you for your time and comment! Regards

It’s an honour to read your blog. I like your thoughts Therefore I read your each and every blog since I join the steemit platform

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You are doing a great job@chbartist,due to your motivational article many steemit fellows have connected each other with positive reaction.
I am continuously following you. I always wait for your motivational articles. keep it up ,have a good day ,, sir i upvote you please upvote me thanks ,,,

Thank you for your time!

Mutual respect is the foundation of a strong community and without it, one cannot imagine progress, even if someone disagrees with another there are always ways to express and address those disagreements without insult and misbehaving. As it is rightly said

> If you want to go fast go alone but, if you want to go far go together.

Forgive guys if I have missed something. You all have a great day ahead.

Thank you.

True words my friend

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Thank you!

You sir,and d-pend Sir are personalities of both generous individuals.

I appreciate your words but I think I and @d-pend are just people that in my opinion the world would be simpler if people understood that respect is the top of the pyramid for all the other good things we have to offer.

Disagreement should not turn into disrespectful behavior. We can never agree with someone or someone can never agree with us in all matters and in every sphere of life. Everyone has his/her own opinion and way of thinking. Sometimes we may be wrong and the other person may be right and vice-versa but this should not be a matter of personal attacks. Respect is a mutual thing. We need to respect others in order to expect respect from them. @d-pend is a very nice person. I like his poem very much. Nice post from you also dear @chbartist.

Thank you my friend! good see you...

You're welcome dear!

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Respect is the basic ingredient for relationship growth.

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Well said and I believe more in discussion rather having arguments and discussions should be healthy... Both parties should be receptive and should respect each other.

Yes. Thank you!

To go a long way in life we need relationship with our friends.And that is positivity and mutual respect which can help us to build a strong relationship between us.Not a big deal though.Just i have to respect other and in return i also will find respect or may be anything more.

Exactly. All the best!

We may not always agree with every one of our neighbors, friends or co-worker. That's life. But it doesn't mean that we start heating them it's part of living we have to be mutual respectful.

Mutual respect! That's what it takes to be friends or beloved one.

Most of the relationship and friendships are based on mutual respect and mutual understanding.

Mutual respect it could be seen everywhere at home or as well as office or your work place. Give respect to other if you want to receive it.

It's great you got good response from other people in order to build a positive community. It's great it can be seen on your previous posts comments how people are supporting each other and trying to share there views and opinion.

@chbartist I especially go to your last post where you had a conversation with @d-pend when I read that post and after that the comment by @d-pend I really got some valuable things which is very helpful in our life.

You are doing great in order to build a positive people community. You also getting a good response from hello steemians. It could be seen in the comments where everyone express there feeling and participate in the discussion positively and comment accordingly and every positive comment get 9-12 votes .

That time is not so far when there is a big community of positive people

@asks

Exactly my friend, as I said in a previous response to someone else who commented on this post: I've been insisting on people voting on each other's comments because I understand that people who dedicate their time to make comments based on the post deserve at least the respect and receive something for the time they dedicated to comment. I have also seen this change and I am very happy to see people with 5,6,7,8 upvotes of all who participate here in my blog. For me this is the true way to build a community and so am I do not like and do not agree with the flags, but I will still write in another post about it. For now the important thing is that people understand exactly what I'm trying to promote here that is simply that some help others. Regards

Yes of course waiting for your next awesome article. Keep posting such types of positive article to spread positivity in steemit community
@asks

Respect is very important part in life. We must respect everyone's thought even if we don't agree with them. Everyone has his own thought process and sometimes conflict is obvious. Your thoughts are amazing and each and every post of yours come with motivation and full of knowledge. This is what I like most.

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Thank you. Regards!

You i totally appriciate your post.Both of you respectable for us.Respect is more important in our life.You respect others.Others respect u.without respect life is nothing.Positive attitude is also important in our life.Positive attitude always attracts to others.such a valuable and helpful post.Thanks for sharing.

Thank you for read! Regards!

Tôi rất vui khi được đọc bài viết của bạn. Tôi là người mới tôi chưa thể hiểu về các vấn đề chuyên môn của Steem, nhưng tôi biết giá trị nhân phẩm con người đó là sự tôn trọng,lịch sự. Khi tôi đọc bài viết trước của bạn tôi đã cảm thấy buồn và nuối tiếc cho một tác giả có tầm nhìn rộng . Và hôm nay tôi đã rất vui khi được đọc bài viết mới của bạn. Chào mừng trở lại.

Thank you, you are right these are my life essentials for everyone.

@chbartest I'm very happy to see that your hardwork is paying off. I really appreciate your work in order to create a community of positive people. I especially encourage you efforts to give rewards to the people who gave their time to your post and write a comment according to the post and express their views. You are doing such a great job. Your efforts are pretty much awesome 😍😘

Now days it is very hard to get people's attention when it is about positivity. You are doing very well. Keep writing these types of motivational article to bring change in the people's mentality.

I read your conversation with @d-pend really it was amezing, very helpful to understand people's intention how they think about you. I showed your hard work how people are interested on your article.

@ajsharma333

Thank you friend! Have a good day!

Sam to you @chbartist

I agree with you. Moreover, I think every individual's thought or word is created by the living surrounding and they are all right to some extent or specific situation. We had better digest what are appropriate to us :)

great oppurtunity to be with you and follow you , thank you for all you information and knowledge.

Thank you!

It's true. I love your response

Excelente 😉

Certainly, we can't build healthy relationship without respecting each others point of view.
I wish as a responsible community, we should have a common code of conduct. That will help us to mutually resolve disagreements and create harmony.

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Exactly! Regards

Dialogue is the best, and this is what Steemit is about, it is a blockchain that people can interact with each other in addition to demonstrating their diverse talents.

In addition, each individual has a different point of view that can sometimes coincide or not, the important thing is to respect each other and give each person their views without offending anyone.

cordial greetings! @chbartist

Thank you @franz54

A short but a great read!

@chbartist such a great words you have said always. great respectful thoughts... i really appreciate it....

Totalmente de acuerdo con usted, primero que todo es el respeto a todos porque aunque no nos veamos físicamente somos personas los que estamos aquí día a día. Quizás unos estén aquí por sus intereses económicos solamente, pero también estamos aquí personas que nos gusta lo que hacemos y disfrutamos haciéndolo, porque lo que intentamos es ayudar a las personas.

Tu post me hizo recordar una frase muy celebre que expresa una gran verdad y es la siguiente:
“Hemos aprendido a volar como los pájaros, a nadar como los peces; pero no hemos aprendido el sencillo arte de vivir como hermanos”.
Martin Luther King

Thank you @yahe for your time and comment!

@chbartist There are less number of honest peoples. do you agree with me?

No friend, I disagree if you look around you will find that there are many more honest people than dishonest. It is that dishonest minority causes such great damage that it makes us think that most are dishonest as well.

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continue to succeed in steemit. Hopefully this article is useful for others to be an inspiration. and continue to create scientific works.

I won't flag you this time, but you don't need my vote either. I've made my opinions clear and I'll stick with the community I enjoy. Flagging is as valid a tool as voting on Steemit :)

I understand your opinion but I disagree because I think it's counterproductive. Imagine a beginner having a flag in their post because someone did not like the written content. I do not know if you know but there is a study that peoples has committed suicide by having many dislikes in you tube or very few LIKES in instagram. Do you know why YouTube did not want to take the dislikes until now? Because this also of the audience for them to sell their ads without thinking that someone took the time to produce a free content for the youtube to make money with the same content that made a person commit suicide. I'm still going to write a post about how serious this has been in society. With all respect @chbartist

Social media has caused a lot of issues as there can be a lot of pressure to perform. I read about successful Youtubers who are really stressed by having to produce content every day and respond to fans.

I think you tend to dodge the issue that you can be seen to be abusing the Steemit platform by buying massive votes on your posts to appear on the trending page. That looks greedy to some people. Why should your posts take such a large slice of the pie? You have a lot of followers now and many of those will give you votes, so why not just accept the rewards they give you? Just because others buy votes does not make it the right thing to do.

I would not flag someone just because I disagreed with their opinion. Most of what I flag is people cynically abusing this platform with self-votes and bought votes on low quality posts. They only care about the money. The intention of Steem/Steemit was user curation to reward good content. The so-called bid bots were just a business opportunity to be exploited as there is nothing to stop them doing this. I don't know how much you make from their votes, but those running them do very well. I'd rather see more of the creative people making better rewards. Some of them put a lot of work into their posts.

I do use some schemes such as SBI and Steem-UA to give my posts a small boost, but mostly I'm supporting others. I see you also vote for a lot of people and that's good. I think Steemit would benefit from a wider range of people appearing on the trending page, but that's unlikely to happen as things stand.

Yes, we have to give respect to each and every human being. Thou there will be different views and conflict but that doesn't mean we have to be oppressive.
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A good healthy discussion and argument are always benefited by both. But the culprit is ego that comes in between.
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"it is that a relationship without respect is nothing, a conversation without respect is nothing."
This all can be possible if we are humble and egoless. This culprit ego never let us listen to others and never let us understand others. It is always "I" that want to make right.
Some people want to hurt @chbartist reputation, if you do not agree with him it is always welcome that you discuss with him and make your point. As far I know him that he will understand. Let we show some maturity and keep aside all the ego and work together to make a better community.

Beautiful comment! I agree with you. There is a lot of ego in all of this. But I'm still with mine in place. LOL Let's go! Thank's for your time

Respect comes from both sides.

its difficult

Yo Bruh...

Take a break for 1-2 weeks...don't think about it too much..sometimes we think too much about things that don't mean much in a bigger picture...

Take a sip of whisky or whatevre...at end of day we are strangers on internet and let's not take it too seriously !!

Peace Bruh !!

LOL! Great @itstime!

aight brosef...see you around

Superb👍 @chbartist

Understanding our difference is vital to communication, it helps to accept and respect peoples point and their stand. We all act differently based on our different background, prevailing idea in our region and beliefs.

Exactly! All the best!

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Hello @chbartist. It's good to see things are getting better for you and it's good to see, after all this time, you're finally finding ways to listen to and respect views that don't necessarily sit well with your own personal perspective.

With all due respect: In the past you've come across as being a little bit stubborn so seeing some of that fall to the wayside is a big step in the right direction.

I'd like to make a request. In my humble opinion, kind sir, the Steemit trending page is no place for anyone's personal social media status messages. Your life and experience here does not accurately reflect the community as a whole. When one pays to be on this page, as you do, yes, their work can be seen, but at the same time the opinions expressed within these paid for trending posts become disguised as popular opinion. If you're sitting up here claiming the place is toxic, with $500 next to the post, that could lead people to believe the entire platform must be toxic because it appears as if many agree. Some do not know you've paid for this slot and they are unaware your opinion isn't trending based on popularity, it's trending because you want it to be trending.

People see, "The place is toxic," but they don't see the thousands of us out there enjoying ourselves far far away from this trending page and for many months on end. This page, your personal blog and social circle here; these things are not the center of the universe. If you think this is your stage and every idea that pops out of your head is worth announcing to the world and to the tune of hundreds of dollars, so be it. That is how you will be remembered, but please refrain from placing your personal social media status messages like the one above and a few previous posts of yours on the trending page here because unfortunately posts like this and a few of your previous posts have the potential to harm our brands due to the fact your personal experience does not speak for us all.

Majority of the people here are good and it's been that way for over two years. We don't need to be focusing on the minority negative, as you've done so many times in the past, and promoting the dark side to the big stage so it can sweat under the spotlights.

> So believe me when I say we have made progress as a community, as small as it may look for some. And I am feeling pretty grateful.

We've been making progress for a long time. Small for some? Massive for many more. There's no need for that progress to be overshadowed and stalled because of your own personal inconveniences within your realm.

I will apologize if I've ever offended you in the past, but I'll have you know, offending you, if I did offend you, was never my intention.

Maybe focus on pushing your best work to the top, because we all know you're capable of doing better, and save the personal stuff for your personal viewership. They will still support you if you don't have $500 next to your post. Try giving them a chance and know that we're not all here to watch the @chbartist Show.

Thank you for your time.

*Self voted for visibility. Self vote will be removed later on.

Hello, @nonameslefttouse, thank you for your time but there are many points put by you here in this post that I would like to understand better about what you really meant.

1 - Why do you say things are getting better for me?

2 - Why do you say that I am only now reopening other points of view? I have always respected the point of view of others in my life journey.

3 - I'm not seeing 500 in this post. You should be referring to the latter and it was driven because I also took it in my humble opinion that it was necessary due to issues that have already been resolved and to my surprise the post you refer to was the catalyst for a great debate at a high level especially with @d-pend and many others who participated in a very positive way of the conversation and I was very grateful for all.

4 - What do you mean by no one's personal social media status messages?

5 - On the toxicity I already commented this in the previous post. Maybe I did not express myself well or people understand what they want because in fact I'm referring to very toxic and negative people who do not bring any benefit to anyone or even to them so I did not want to say that the platform is toxic because this is the case I would have already left here because I do not know if you have read my other posts and what I say is that I have always stayed away from negative people so I would never participate in a negative community (platform).

6 - I do not understand when you say refrain from placing my personal social media status

7 - Majority of the people here are good and it's been that way for over two years. We do not need to focus on the minority negative. This point placed by you I fully agree, perhaps at some point when I was attacked I may not have expressed myself correctly. We really can not focus on a negative minority.

8 - We've been making progress for a long time. Small for some? Massive for many more. There's no need for that progress to be overshadowed and stalled because of your own personal inconveniences within your realm. / Sorry but I have no kingdom, I am not king, I am not God, much less the owner of the truth.

9 - About you having offended me in the past I do not remember, but anyway if this happened no problem I accept your apologies but you will never see me offend or attack anyone because if I do not know the person I do not see myself being fair if I did this, but I can understand that in the heat of some discussions and moments the people can do it. I do not offend or attack anyone but I defend myself if I am attacked disrespectfully because as I have said before respect is the fundamental basis of everything.

10 - I do not understand also about the @Chbartist show. My friend what I'm trying to do here is just to help and motivate people. I have been doing this all the time and am sorry if you see this as a show.

And to finish I too if I understood well and I apologize if I did not understand well what you said but when I share the experiences of my life I'm sure this helps many people and au think it sad that you think a personal journey can not teach anyone. I do not know how old you are, but regardless, Have you taken the time to think that we are the result of the legacy of other people's history?

Anyone's story matters to me and I do not write about my story to do a show I write because it can teach a lot of people to miss out on their lives and motivate them to move on and I did not write 10% of My story on my blog. I can respect that my story does not mean anything to you but it has an important meaning for many others. I do not know if you know but I am very well paid in my country to tell my story to new students, executives, sales teams from large companies that are unmotivated and I know the result that good provides for them. The Chbartist show you refer to I did not do at any point on this platform. The one you refer to is the artist and I'm not being the artist here, this I keep for the magazines I give interviews, TV shows I do in my country, radio stations and shows and I can guarantee you that at that moment I I do not tell you about my journey as you referred here.

I do not know if you noticed but in the short time that I have I try to respond to all the people who destine their time to comment on my posts, including I am doing it now with you. I just got back from a 12 hour recording session, it's now 5:27 AM in my country and I'm here responding to you and I hope you understand how hard this can be for most people because they would be too tired to do that now, but I've seen your long text and found it respectful of me to take my time to respond to you myself exhausted after a day that I worked over 14 hours.

I would also like you to notice that I have insisted that people vote for each other in my posts because I think everyone who dedicates some time to commenting on 4 or 5 lines deserves at least having their time rewarded and this has happened and I have been very happy to see people with 7,8,10 upvotes in their comments. I also vote for all of them because they are helping each other and everyone is winning by their dedicated time and I think this is very good when I refer to the community.

I would still like to say that this post that you posted your comment has nothing to do with my story it is nothing more than a reflection learned through with my journey.

But regardless of anything and to relax a little I can agree disagreeing with you! LOL and I thank you for the respectful, kind and time you dedicated to your comment but I would also ask you not to speak on behalf of all people like you did above saying that what I post is not the platform's desire because when we write the text it's cold, it's not like we're talking because the text does not move, it has no intonation and you can notice that many problems that happen in the media in discussions and attacks were started by a text and being cold may seem something that is not if you understand me.

JFK was once interviewed by a reporter who asked him: What would be the formula for success?

He wisely replied: The formula of success I did not discover but I discovered the formula of failure that is try to please everyone!

I wish the best for you always

Regards

@chbartist

Dang.

I wrote that thinking your response would be something generic like, "Thank you for your comment and time! All the best!" I wasn't expecting to have to punch the clock and get to work!
(Explanation: I'm simply opening with a joke.)

1) You became somewhat frustrated, wrote a post demanding respect while calling people out for being "toxic" without mentioning names. Now you write a brief update, seemingly impressed with how a few things turned out so I assume you're feeling better.

2) On occasion, based from what I've seen here, I see it a bit differently, and that's fine. You also say, "If anything I finally understood some of the logical concerns some people were trying to tell me..."

3) It's not unusual for you to artificially inflate your posts to a higher level than everyone else. $200, $500, $800. Those are only numbers, they don't matter anyway. You purchased those votes before the conversation took place and I know you can't predict future. I doubt those people you're proud of took part in the conversation because they saw $500. Creating a culture where people are only nice for a price is ridiculous, in my opinion. Talk is talk. That's all. Place this post next to something with a $200 price tag and try to convince me this post is worth the same amount. You won't be able to. Offer this post to someone who's selling something for $200 as a trade. Try to convince them you're being fair. You won't be able to.

4) This post is only a few simple thoughts, much like a Facebook status message. I could write this while I wait for a red light to turn green.

5) If the negative types didn't exist, there would be no positives, because we'd have nothing to compare them to. Plenty of middle ground out there. Stick around, you're welcome here. Negative types won't go away no matter what you say and we need them anyway. When you're balancing, it's best not to run, you might fall.

6) It just doesn't make much sense to jot down a few ideas while waiting for the traffic light to turn green, then promote these random thoughts to the top of the trending page. Dress to impress when you want people to look at you. Don't wear your pajamas to the trending page. A simple Facebook-like status message is not worth hundreds of dollars. I promise, in Canada, you can't even buy a cheeseburger with this post. Constructive criticism. You'd be experiencing a lot less negativity around you if you put some elbow grease into these posts. I'm only being honest with you.

7) Things aren't perfect. So what.

8) I stand by what I said. There's no need to take it out of context.

9) Respect is earned, not a given. You say you don't offend people. When you started up here back in January, you were using the art tag and buying votes to push your posts to the top, pushing all of the other artists down, and your posts didn't include any art. I was one of those artists and I spoke up to stand up for these people, as well as myself. Picture yourself on a stage, performing. The crowd is there, they want to see you. You worked your way up to get there. You know this life, correct? So you're up there, playing your music, and someone out of the crowd steps up on stage, stands right in front of you, then begins to play. Would the crowd cheer, or boo? How would you feel? You didn't seem to care when you did that to us. You simply said you weren't breaking any rules and carried on as if only you mattered. Is that positive behavior? Respectful? Inoffensive? At the time, knowing me, I may have said some harsh things so I'm apologizing. I can't remember either but I admit I'm not the best at staying calm. It has been difficult to respect you ever since. I put my work up in my little virtual art gallery, folks like you came along and covered it up with poster advertisements. A tough pill to swallow. I want to rip them down. Can you blame me? Those are my shoes, try them on.

10) This place isn't all about you or what you're dealing with.

As for the rest... maybe I'll read that closely, later. I'm tired.

I have a story, too.

Thanks. Try to have a good day.

Are you sure you have read my answer? It seems to me that you read something else because what I saw in your response to me were only distortions about what I answered to you with all respect and what I saw besides distortions an aggressive person, attacking me, demeaning me, speaking about things from the past and making analogies with things that are out of context and I honestly do not understand their aggressiveness. Please try to remove this hurt from your heart and please look for someone else to be aggressive, insult and throw your frustrations at her. You should value the time I spent responding to you but on the contrary you just know that what I do is not worth anything in your country. I am sorry for this because in my country is enough and as I said before and it seems that you did not read, you try to speak for all inclusive being the spokesperson of Canada a country that I admire a lot for the education of people. I do not wish you to have just one good day but I wish all your days are good. It is always very difficult to speak to anyone who does not want to hear or distort. I already know this game and I'm out .... Regards Again

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I don't see any insults there. No aggressiveness. You asked me to explain those points, I thought, so I tried to be open, honest and direct with you.

I honestly don't even know why I tried to speak to you again. You lashing out like this doesn't surprise me. I honestly expected you to try to make me out to look like some kind of evil human being before I even started, unfortunately.

> I honestly do not understand

I'd say that's accurate. Communication breakdown.

Chub Artist is either a con artist peddling Hallmark Greeting Card platitudes to the hard-of-thinking or he actually believes the dopey self-help bromides he regurgitates. Either way, his "marketing" tactics and jejune content lowers the bar for Steemit--especially when his posts can usually be found "trending" near the top of Steemian food chain.
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I don't care enough anymore. I'm done trying to talk to this guy. And I didn't come here to rip him apart.

Not all of us understands cryptos nor fully understands the steemit platform. But if this "@chbartist show" as you call it is giving many of us, his friends and followers, positive motivations and opportunity to be a part of a growing family of people with positive mind set, then then that is what we need because we hope to climb to the top and in trying to do so, we will encounter a number of different personalities including the toxic once whose statements/actions most of the time brings down what was intended to be great and to the benefit of many. How to identify and deal with such people he has shared but i wish he had given some few examples so that we can observe such people and get some guided experience which will also help us in our own day to day interactions. Perhaps someday, someone might rise up from the @chbartist family with a complete guide on how to turn a toxic person to a non-toxic and good friend.
Every community today started with 1 person's idea, next it grew to a circle of people, next a family and then the community.
This is a platform designed for free voicing, it is good we all share our ideas, discuss, understand and learn from one another because we all are from different background with different values and beliefs.
I am looking forward to the day when the friends and family and other positive minded people (and observers if they chose not to be part of the family) of @chbartist will converge and i hope to be in attendance of the coming together of your own extended family ( and that is if i chose not to be part of your own which might not be if it is builded on a positive platform)

good job...

The post is absolulety right without respect their is no meaning of relationship, That why Gautam Buddha said without respect their is no reason to continue

И хотя абсолютная Истина радикально реальна вне всякого другого, она только познается людям по частям.

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It's reality that when u gave respect to got respect if not gave respect to other karma do the same thing with you

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I love reading your post. Very good post. The dialog is very respectable.
You can hold this respect to yourself

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And here I am also feeling to be grateful to be the part of this community

Very good post continues like this my friend.

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