"There are no regrets in life, just lessons."- Jennifer Aniston.
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It seems the human node is programmed to understand how to regret for every little event that befalls us instead of trying to learn from it.
The age of understanding always manages to elude many because, they never get matured enough to get themselves prepared for change and how best to accept it.
When we campaign for change, it comes for real but we fail to see it because, we automatically have a programmed mindset that tells us that, change must be good.
We most often count our loses instead of our blessing and regret for those little pitfalls we have experienced instead of appreciating the lessons.
I Feel Blessed!
I am learning everyday to be first grateful for failing whenever it comes so I can learn those lessons embedded therein. The best practical approach which I have come to see as being effective for living a stress free life daily, is to expect the fails and be smart enough to take advantage of the learning curves tailored around it.
No one should fail; No one should be in pain, and I strongly believe that, everyone should win and be happy... but then, life isn't about the positives alone.
In life, the positives and negatives make it what it is, a place to live. I strongly believe that, life is a bed of roses because without the thorns, there will be no roses.
So whenever life comes so brash and unfair to you, simply pick up your writing pad and pen, drop the regrets and learn the lessons.
Make the world a better place for someone today!