Hello guys, I'd like to give y'all a story.
Once upon a time, I met a pretty, independence and very successful lady back in school and was inclined to walk with her. We went on along, because I never found the nerves to tell her my intentions. She seem to like me alot, that I don't still know why.. But that's not the point today.
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At some point of beating around the bush, some guy overheard me say, "I like this young lady" and the guy said, u better be careful, she is engaged. That shocked me.. But I was determine to cause problem in the engagement. (I didn't even believe she was, cos she doesn't wear the ring about)
I still went about with her, never bringing up the topic. I thought if she is engaged, I better not let her know that I'm aware, after all, I was getting free courtesies.
But.. Ah, well I wanted more. So one night, when I went to pay her a visit in her hostel, I decided to pop the question. Yeah, the question.
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With a frog voice and a little shivering I asked, "are you engaged"? "Some one said you are". Whether or not I made a mistake I said it already.. At least I'm a man right? (I half expected she would deny for me) she smile and looked me in the face and said "yes" after I explained where I heard it from sha.
When she noticed the sadness in my eye, cos' I was shocked that a girl like this was actually taken by a guy which could be undeserving. She added "Not like he is an old man.... He is just a young Guy with potentials" oh boy...
I left her that night asking myself, Do I have potentials? Can anyone look at me and say, he's got potentials.
Every time I'm face with threatening situations, I hear the questions echeo, can you be a a real man? Do you think you have what it takes to be a guy with potentials for your people?
To be honest, I was heart broken. But, I am more successful than I was before that question. I still pray that she should stop seeing the potentials in the guy and look up.. Cos' I have accumulated enough potentials.. Or I'm still packing it.
Look up guys, there is no time to joke around. Be the lady and the guy with potentials.
©JFz
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