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Nothing Lives in a Vacuum

BY: @tarazkp | CREATED: June 1, 2026, 10:58 a.m. | VOTES: 553 | PAYOUT: $11.91 | [ VOTE ]

After dropping Smallsteps into the first day of her "music camp" where she will be with a couple friends and a larger group of kids, I had a coffee with one of the mother. I am not even sure what they are going to do in the classes, but it will be better than her hanging about the house for the week. Summer holidays are long for kids (about ten weeks) in Finland, so this year for the first time we have signed her up to a few activities, each of which has friends involved too.

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So at coffee, I was my usual depressive self, as we talked about the state of the world, educational children's skills (or lack thereof) and opportunities in the future, and how the economy is geared toward the degradation of society.

> Fun for me at least.

What was interesting is that the mother, despite her being about as intelligent and educated as people get, is at a loss as to what to do about her own children. For instance, her son who is now an early teen has gone from being social and musical, to being immersed in a screen and unable concentrate to learn a piece of music at the piano - In less than two years.

> Her story is familiar amongst other parents I have spoken with.

This is more than teen changes, because it isn't just teens going through puberty experiencing it, as children much younger are facing the same impacts of over consumption and stimulation. Highly addictive platform design, coupled with highly compelling (but ultimately useless) content designed to keep people scrolling, clicking, and consuming like drug addicts.

Her parents are heavily affected by Alzheimer's with one in care already, but we were talking about how the brain works and how it breaks down. But with the daily tasks that have become habitual, the brain has highways of connections so the wide thoroughfares keep functioning the longest. I believe it is part of the reason that so many old soldiers remain mentally sharp, when they have lived a relatively simple, structured, repetitive life. Even as the brain breaks down, the highways still have enough pathways to keep functioning.

As I was saying the other day here, the body is always learning, and the brain is part of the body. It will build the road network based on experience and reinforce based on repetition. From a young age now though, that experience and repetitive behaviour isn't activity, but passivity. The highways are built to consume, not create. To sit, not move. And I believe this means that as the brain starts to cut connections with age, these people don't have wide neural pathways that can absorb disruption, and they will lose what is considered nowadays basic functions quicker, and at you get ages. Early onset Alzheimer's will be increasingly common.

We are undermining the very things that make is human, but we keep building tools to soften the blow and distract us so we don't notice. Many will call for a redefinition of what "being human" means, but what we are actually doing is outsourcing humanity to machines, while turning ourselves into little more than bags of flesh. So many are searching for meaning, but we are making ourselves obsolete and meaningless.

The solution to this is pretty easy, but it means fundamentally changing the way we operate in the world. We'd have to pivot away from seeing the accumulation of wealth as the indicator success and the incentive to create, and instead see the growth of human wellbeing and opportunity as the driving force, and the activity that is rewarded. We work on incentive, we work on reward, which is why those platforms and games are so addictive, because they flood our reward centres and make us believe we are winning, even though the only prize we get is a loss.

> But they generate money in the economy, so it is acceptable.

Our economic focus is completely wrong, as we have incentivised activities that harm us, and disincentivised activities that could help us. For instance, how often have you heard that clean tech solutions are "too expensive" to use? Have you ever considered the absolute absurdity of that statement at the macro level? That an economy functions regardless of price or what it is spent on? But this false proposition of "too expensive" keeps us doing what enriches a handful of people, at the life expense of humanity.

Society is crumbling globally, with physical, mental and social health at all time lows. Which is incredible considering how much we know, how much we can treat, how capable we are to improve our wellbeing. We should be deeply ashamed at the state of our world currently, and the majority of us ashamed by the condition we are in. We have so much information at our fingertips to be better as an individual and useful within a community, but what do we do with it?

> To each their own?

It just doesn't cut it. We are all in this together and while we can each choose how we behave, because incentives aren't aligned to our wellbeing, we end up choosing what costs us all. We are highly influenced by our environment and it has been designed to compel us to consume to our continued detriment, and to accept it as the only way it can be. It is bullshit. The way we are organised is to maximise resource wealth and control for the few, but isn't the only way we can organise ourselves. But we are brainwashed, suffering, but expecting that someone with authority is going to save us.

> They won't.

The only thing that can change the direction we are on, is us through how we behave.

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@nabbas0786 | June 1, 2026, 11:09 a.m. | Votes: 2 | [ VOTE ]

> Summer holidays are long for kids (about ten weeks) in Finland.

10 weeks mean 2 and half months, it is very common in Pakistan too... Summer vacations lasts for 2 & half months, I remember when I was in school, those days were not this much of hot as I am witnessing these days, we happily attempt our Summer Camps for fun. But now, in this hot weather this is very hard to see our childs burning out in hot (very few schools have proper air-conditioning).

The only thing that can change the direction we are on, is us through how we behave.

This is absolutely right thing you said, only us can save ourselves and that is also with our own behave with ourselves; once we start behaving good with ourselves we may behave good to others too. The first change should be within ourselves instead of forcing others to be changed;

@tarazkp | June 1, 2026, 7:18 p.m. | Votes: 0 | [ VOTE ]

>those days were not this much of hot as I am witnessing these days, we happily attempt our Summer Camps for fun.

Has the change been that much?

>The first change should be within ourselves instead of forcing others to be changed;

Yes - unfortunately, 8 billion people need to change themselves.

@nabbas0786 | June 1, 2026, 7:27 p.m. | Votes: 1 | [ VOTE ]

> Has the change been that much?

Yes! In Lahore, the historical average temperatures for June and July 2016 ranged from lows of 26°C (79°F) to highs of 43°C (109°F), and in 2026 the normal temperature is 40°C...

Data collected from Google and I am the witness of this too.

@tarazkp | June 1, 2026, 7:30 p.m. | Votes: 0 | [ VOTE ]

That is quite the change.

@nabbas0786 | June 1, 2026, 7:33 p.m. | Votes: 0 | [ VOTE ]

At very few occasions I have seen the temperature below of 35°C, mostly when it rains; otherwise it remains very hot to handle; !LOLZ

@videoaddiction | June 1, 2026, 11:34 a.m. | Votes: 1 | [ VOTE ]

I think the impact of screens on children's development is a serious problem. Yesterday, I saw a news saying that this issue is even preventing people from getting married 🙄

@tarazkp | June 1, 2026, 5:57 p.m. | Votes: 0 | [ VOTE ]

>Yesterday, I saw a news saying that this issue is even preventing people from getting married 🙄

It definitely is. People are unable to form healthy relationships, let alone commit.

@bozz | June 1, 2026, 11:51 a.m. | Votes: 1 | [ VOTE ]

I'm glad that I have never really bought into the whole short video content thing. I mean I know that is only part of it, but I can see how easily people can get dragged into those holes. I think being online pretty much all day gives me a good reason to be off it as much as possible when I am at home.

@tarazkp | June 1, 2026, 5:50 p.m. | Votes: 1 | [ VOTE ]

> I mean I know that is only part of it, but I can see how easily people can get dragged into those holes.

It is pretty compelling and once the habit is there to reinforce repetition, it is hard for people to climb out of that hole. Best is - not to dive down it.

@chinito | June 1, 2026, 5:25 p.m. | Votes: 1 | [ VOTE ]

must.. consume.. more.. more.. more..

well, this flesh bag 'works' for food, movies, and hugs. :)

my kids were both such screen monsters when younger, but now that they are big.. not so much..

@tarazkp | June 1, 2026, 5:56 p.m. | Votes: 0 | [ VOTE ]

>my kids were both such screen monsters when younger, but now that they are big.. not so much..

It isn't as much about whether they are on screens later in life, but more about what happens when they are young to their brains and bodies perhaps.

@seattlea | June 1, 2026, 6:11 p.m. | Votes: 1 | [ VOTE ]

I think it is up to parents to make sure kids are not over-using the phones or computers... Our daughter is going to be 13 this month and she seems to balance the usage of electronic devices really well. In fact she is now rejecting digital art, because she feels it is not real art and prefers to paint regular canvas...

@tarazkp | June 1, 2026, 7:29 p.m. | Votes: 0 | [ VOTE ]

>I think it is up to parents to make sure kids are not over-using the phones or computers...

I agree. However, I also think that there needs to be a type of "social push" to ensure parents start parenting, rather than taken the road of convenience.

> In fact she is now rejecting digital art, because she feels it is not real art and prefers to paint regular canvas...

All digital art, or just the gen-AI stuff?

@seattlea | June 1, 2026, 11:28 p.m. | Votes: 0 | [ VOTE ]

All digital art, because she knows how to use several tools for Digital Image creation (not just Photoshop), she has a Wacom PRO tablet that she used to create a bunch of digital art images which I thought were amazing, but she has stopped doing it for a year now and does only physical art now...

@fonestreet | June 1, 2026, 7:33 p.m. | Votes: 0 | [ VOTE ]

Its very sad read this while i look around in my neighborhood

@tarazkp | June 1, 2026, 7:37 p.m. | Votes: 0 | [ VOTE ]

What do you see when you look around your neighbourhood?

@fonestreet | June 1, 2026, 8:03 p.m. | Votes: 0 | [ VOTE ]

I live in a small town in Monagas State here in Venezuela, and lately we’ve witnessed some truly unprecedented and unbelievable cases of inhumanity. One of the most recent cases involved a couple who lived just two houses down from me, with three children: a 6-year-old, a 10-year-old, and a baby just a few months old. The couple separated, and within a week we could already see the children out on the street late late at night on the street—and knowing that this is an area that isn’t very nice, not to mention dangerous— the kids with cell phones and those new TikTok trends and waves of violence—I think that has a huge influence on society. The thing is, the children’s father realized the situation one day during a visit and tried to take them by force, leading to a moment of domestic violence in which several neighbors intervened. A few hours after the man left and called the authorities, and the situation calmed down, the man returned to the the woman’s house and, wielding a machete, ended the lives of the four people—the woman and her three children. Next, neighbors in the area, upon hearing the screams and loud blows, came out and, without a word, upon seeing the blood and the man’s face, took justice into their own hands. With stones and sticks, they ended this man’s life while a whole bunch of other kids watched their friends get beaten, their mother torn to pieces, and the man who perpetrated all this act lying on the ground. Amid screams, sirens, and things like that, it makes me think about how broken and ugly the world is.
And sorry if the words aren’t in the right order—I speak Spanish, wrote this text, and translated it using the DeepL app.

@leighdalisay | June 2, 2026, 12:45 p.m. | Votes: 1 | [ VOTE ]

This is such a powerful post. I mean, it captures a deep frustration with the paradox of modern life. We have more knowledge, tools, and resources than ever before, yet many indicators of wellbeing seem to be declining.

@tarazkp | June 2, 2026, 7:23 p.m. | Votes: 0 | [ VOTE ]

>yet many indicators of wellbeing seem to be declining.

I would say most of them are declining, with very little improving significantly.

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